My Process

When you contact me, here's what will happen:

  • You'll provide some preliminary information (names, date of ceremony, contact information, etc.).
  • We'll set a date/time and place to meet that is mutually convenient.
  • Before we meet, I'll email you sample ceremonies to review.
  • Our meeting will cover a wide range of topics, including:
  • The process for obtaining your marriage or civil union license.
  • What type of ceremony you have in mind.
  • Whether or not you'll want any rituals or traditions included, or if you'll want friends or family members to participate (e.g., readings, unity candle/sand ceremony).
  • My fees and the comprehensive services they cover.

I'll leave two copies of my contract with you, pre-signed by me, and ask that you take some time to consider what we've discussed and determine if I am the "right" officiant to join you in marriage or civil union.

I'm always deeply honored when asked to take on the responsibility of performing a marriage or civil union ceremony. If you decide I am the "right" officiant for you, here's what you can expect to happen.

What happens next?

  • You'll return one signed contract to me with your retainer. (The balance is due on or before the day of your ceremony.)
  • We'll work together via email to develop your ceremony, until we get it exactly the way you envision it.
  • If you choose to have a rehearsal, I'll meet with you and any family members and/or friends and we'll "walk" through the ceremony. (The rehearsal should take under an hour.)
  • On the day of your ceremony, I'll arrive approximately an hour early.
  • Your witnesses and I will sign your marriage or civil union license.
  • You'll make final payment to me for my services.
  • Everyone will gather at the designated time and your ceremony (and the next phase of your lives) will begin.
  • Congratulations!


After your ceremony.

  • On the next business day, I'll mail the completed license to the appropriate Registrar's office and confirm this with you by email.
  • I'll provide you with the correct Registrar's contact information so you can call and arrange to obtain the certified copy(ies) of your marriage or civil union certificate.

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"Thanks so much for everything! We really enjoyed having you be part of our day and got sooooo many compliments on the ceremony. Everyone loved it and we could not have been happier. We had an amazing day/night and all of it was possible because of our wonderful families, friends and the people like you who we chose to participate in our special day. Thanks again! You rocked!!!"

Lisa & George
South Gate Manor
Freehold, NJ
October 2011